The Long Way Home

For most of my life, I didn't feel truly seen. I looked like I had it all together—
on the outside, I was responsible, competent, spiritual. But underneath that was a tangle of shame, self-doubt, and a gnawing fear that something was
wrong with me. I didn't know it at the time, but I was living from a false self
I had created in childhood— one shaped by unhealed trauma, survival roles, 
and the ached to be loved for who I was.

For decades, I chased healing through perfectionism, people-pleasing, spiritual
striving, and self-help overload. I wanted to be good. I wanted to be free. But
nothing truly shifted until I stopped trying to fix myself... and started telling the
truth. 

Truth became the doorway. Not a weapon, but a whisper — a gentle mirror showing me who I really am beneath the shame: beloved, worthy, whole.

Healing didn't come through becoming someone new. It came through coming
home to who I've always been.

Now, I walk alongside others who are ready to come home too.


What I Believe

This is the spiral path I've lived and now guide others through:

Healing is not linear. It's a spiral. We return to old places with new eyes and
deeper grace.

Safety is sacred. True transformation happens when we feel safe enough to be
seen—in our mess, in our beauty, in our becoming.

Telling the truth is healing. Not performance. Not perfection. Just truth—spoken
gently, honestly, and one truth at a time.

We don't need to abandon ourselves. We can simply walk out of the old structures and into a new way of relating to ourselves.

God is not in the shame. He's in the breath, the pause, the whisper that says, you are loved right now.

Your story matters. The cracks in your foundation are not the end of the story - 
they are where the light comes in.

An Invitation

If you've ever felt like you were too much, not enough, or just... disconnected from your own soul — I want you to know: you're not broken. You're not alone.
And you're not too late.

The Identity Spiral is a path of returning to yourself — and to the God who has never stopped loving you.

I'd be honored to walk with you.

Let's take the next step together.  

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Watch my first video on YouTube: "Am I The Narcissist? Why This Terrifying
Question Changed My Life."